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How does one succeed in life?

14.06.2025 07:59

How does one succeed in life?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

What is the sluttiest thing your wife has ever done?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What I need from you?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Sorry, Trump supporters, but eventually it will have to be asked: Why didn't Trump do as well in his first term as he is doing NOW?

Ask yourself:

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What does it mean when someone tells you they love you and want you in their life, but doesn't want to commit?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

What's the difference between “ce”, “ça”, and “cela”, and when do I use each (French)?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What was the first Native American tribe to inhabit Long Island, NY?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Is it true that most people in Québec are bilingual in French and English? If so, why do they often identify as monolingual?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why cant I sleep on my side after getting my covid vaccine? I just got the shot and I’ve been overstimulated from not being able to sleep, my arm is very sore and it hurts so much to move and I just want to sleep but it hurts if I lay on either side

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Why did we evolve to have so many nerve endings in our anuses?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why do women need to wear bras, in spite of the fact that the breasts are an integral part of the body?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How did Neo defeat the architect at the end of The Matrix: Reloaded? Was it solely due to his belief in himself or were there other factors at play?

Making more friends is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

That's it for today.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.